When Women Heal

I’ve been incredibly angry lately. So much so that I completely checked out this week. I’ve literally done nothing but scroll social media and read books. 

Friday night I sat with my hubby, because he was worried and asked me if I was depressed. I shared that I wasn’t depressed, I was full of rage toward the masculine and I don’t know what to do with it. He sat and listened as I shared what was coming up for me and actually agreed with a lot of what I shared (he is healthy masculine). 

The masculine has always been an unsafe place for me. The only safe masculine for me are my dad, hubby, my boys and a few friends of ours. 

But in the outside world, out of my safe container, the masculine isn’t safe at all. I’m feeling it so much right now because of the state of our world. 

Men-War-Ego-Power-Control-Manipulation-Lies and the inability to put ego aside to make a real change in our world, for us, the people. 

There’s been a war on women for millenia. Although we’ve come so far in some instances, there’s still an incredible lack of balance between the masculine and feminine. 

I watched a video the other day where the same questions were asked to a man and a woman. 

Do you cross the street if there is a group of men on the sidewalk in front of you? M: No W: Yes, always. 

Would you go for a run at night? M: Yes W: No, unfortunately. 

Do you get scared to go on a walk on your own? M: No W: Yes

Do you hate walking past building sites? M: No W: Yes, absolutely.

Would you take the quickest route home even if that involves an alleyway? M: Yes W: No, I’d take the longest way home to avoid it. 

When the feminine doesn’t feel safe around the masculine, we have a huge problem. 

As I’m ruminating on this rage I feel, I realized there’s so much contradiction toward the feminine, and who we should and shouldn’t be. No wonder why we have such a huge distortion in our self image: 

Too emotional Too pretty Weak

Too sexy Not pretty enough Too much

Not sexy enough Manipulative Not enough

Bitchy Controlling Scheming

Bossy Untrustworthy Loud

This list could go on and on. 

The distorted masculine cannot handle a healthy and healed feminine. In fact, they’re scared of the power the divine feminine wields when she is standing in her full truth, healed and whole. 

I truly believe healed women are going to heal this world. 

When women heal, the world heals. 

That’s why I’m so passionate about women healing. 

Abortion, for many women, is an incredibly deep wound. It’s a wound that festers under the surface because we are so afraid of the consequences of sharing our hurt, grief and shame. 

Abortion permeates so many areas of our lives, we often don’t realize the invisible threads tied to it. 

Unhealthy Relationships Unhealthy Boundaries Self Sabotage 

Low Self Esteem Unexpressed Rage Controlling

Lack of Self Love Eating Disorders Depression/Anxiety

Low Self Confidence Not Using Your Voice CoDependency 

Again, this list is not exhaustive. 

The statistic of women who have had an abortion is 1 in 4. That’s a large number of women in this world who are walking around with an unhealed wound. 

If you are one of these women, I invite you to step into healing. 

Right now, Beyond the Choice 6-week healing journey is being offered one on one with me. The next group program will begin in January. 

If you are ready to:

Enhance your relationships

Establish Healthy Boundaries 

Have Better Communication Skills 

Stop Self Sabotaging

Improve your Self Confidence and Self Esteem 

Release Shame and Guilt 

Step into Your Power

Then I invite you to step in with me. 

We’ll journey together and heal one of your deepest wounds, so that you can release the guilt and shame that has been holding you back and take back your rightful power, standing in your healthy and empowered feminine. 

Your healing not only heals you, but it also impacts the collective. I truly believe that. 

Learn More ———————> HERE

Sending you so much love Wild Heart. 

If you have any questions, just hit reply to this email. 

And if you’d like to share if you have any sacred rage toward the masculine, hit reply too. 

Be Bold. Be Brave. Be Wild. 

XOXO-

Jennifer

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