The pain of the sister wound

I was incredibly hurt.

On Saturday, I found out that someone I considered a friend, blocked me on social media. 

I had no idea I was blocked until I specifically asked a mutual friend. 

At first, I was really hurt. 

I cared about this person and I loved our connection. 

You see, this person was upset that I was offering 2023 Energy Readings. 

It’s funny because it took a lot of courage for me to even put those readings out there. I was scared to do so, because it was way out of my comfort zone, and all the limited beliefs from my past were popping into my head as to why I shouldn’t.

So to have this happen, was at first, a slap in the face. 

I wanted to take down my offering, because I felt like I had done something wrong. 

But the more I thought about it, the more I realized, I wasn’t wrong and this doesn’t have anything to do with me, and everything to with her own wounds. 

The sister wound is real. 

It’s painful. 

It makes women not trust other women. 

Years ago, this would have taken me out. 

I would have pulled down my offering. I would have felt guilty. I would have cried and I would have reminded myself, “This is why I don’t trust other women.” 

But being a certified master level circle facilitator with Sistership circle, I’ve done a lot of work around the sister wound. 

I was able to understand that this person’s reaction was all about her and really had nothing to do with me. 

I didn’t do anything wrong. 

Women (and men) all over the world offer Energy Readings. 

Women all over the world facilitate women’s circles. 

Women all over the world, offer online courses. 

I’ve circled with women all of the world, and often, we’ll pull the same outline from Sistership Circle and use it for our own circles. 

We actually show up for each other. We support each other. We empower each other because we know how important circling is. 

There’s NO COMPETITION. 

Here’s the thing: 

Just because we’re using the same outline, doesn’t mean our circle is the same. 

Just because I’m providing Energy Readings, doesn’t mean they’re like anyone else’s. 

My magic isn’t like your magic, or anyone else’s. 

My vibe isn’t like your vibe, or anyone else’s. 

My passion isn’t like your passion, or anyone else’s. 

That’s the beauty of it. 

So whether I’m circling, providing energy readings, facilitating my online groups, they’re not like anyone else’s. 

There’s room for everyone to provide their magic to the world. 

I will never block you or not be your friend, if you started to facilitate women’s circle. I would cheer you on and support you in anyway I could. 

I would do the same, if you provided energy readings, or wrote a book, or put an online course together. 
Because I REFUSE to be a part the divide. 

I REFUSE to continue the feed the sister wound.

Part of my mission is to heal the sister wound, and although this did hurt at first, I’m able to see it for what it is. Someone got triggered and operated out of their own wounding. 

All this to say, don’t let anyone derail you. Be You. Share your magic with the world. 

And if someone doesn’t like it, or feels threatened by your magic, keep sharing it. I will always support you. 

Stay Wild XOXO