What are your Divine Desires?
Happy New Year Wild Heart!
I love the beginning of something new, don't you? There's something magickal about turning the page and starting a new chapter.
2022 was full of highs and lows for me and I know was that way for many of our Wild Tribe.
I believe life is just like that, and as a human being, we're going to experience all that life has to offer, good and bad. Which is why it's so important to have a tribe of women around you.
I shared last week that my word for the year was Magick.
Did you pick a word for yourself? Some of our tribe has been sharing their word with me, and I would love to hear what word you are going to take into this new year. Comment below with your word.
Which leads me to my few next questions.
What is it that you desire?
What are those dreams in your heart that you've yet to birth?
What does your life look like if it was everything you imagined?
I was working with a client the other day and we were talking about desire. I believe that the desires that are within us, were given to us to be birthed. That it's our divine birthright to bring them to fruition. We wouldn't have them within us otherwise.
So many women (perhaps you?) are sitting on the sidelines, watching others make their dreams and desires a reality, while silently wishing they could have all that they desire too.
I was one of those women.
I was stuck in a corporate job I resented. Working my ass off to enhance a company, all while losing my sparkle for life. There was so much I envisioned for myself, but I was afraid to step-in to my desires.
Fear has a way of doing that.
It keeps us stuck in resistance and from moving forward with our dreams.
Old programming and old stories have a way of making us believe we are unworthy, not enough, too old, too young, too much, too (fill in the blank.)
It's why I now do the work that I do.
It's why I am opening up my books to take on one on one clients.
Yesterday, in a training I'm attending, I had the honor of being coached by my mentor, Joanna Lindenbaum. I'm in her 10 month practitioner training and am blown away by all that I am learning, things I didn't learn in graduate school, and feel should have been there. Anyway, our topic over the last couple of weeks has been Befriending Your Fear, and I had a lot of fear and resistance popping up.
She walked me so beautifully through connecting with my fear through a somatic practice. I cried. I was so overwhelmed with all that was coming though for me.
Two of my biggest fears are "I'm too much & people are going to criticize me." This is why I self-sabotage.
I tell you this because even though I do this work with clients, I'm not immune to it. I feel fear. I resist. I procrastinate. And all of these have to do with my fear of being too much and being criticized.
When you can make that connection, and really allow yourself to befriend your fear, that's when things change. That's when you can make your desires your reality.
This morning, I shared this story in depth over on my facebook page. You can hop over there to listen.
How do you want to feel?
What do you desire?
Are you living the life you dreamed of?
Are there dreams waiting to be birthed?
Has fear kept you on the sidelines?
Here are some of the things I wanted to feel and am feeling in my life:
Nourished
Lit up
Connected
Juicy
Lucious
Thriving
Excited
Soft
Sensual
Creative
In Flow
and so many others.
2023 is the year of the DIVINE FEMININE. Of birthing our DIVINE DESIRES and creating a life you love.
As a former mental health therapist, and having worked with women for over 15 years, the work I do isn't like anyone else's. It's intuitive and customized to you and what you desire. I don't use a cookie cutter system because I believe your individual needs should be at the forefront of the work we do.
Let's make 2023 the year you get off the sidelines, and start truly living a life you love.
Stay Wild,
Comment below with how you want to feel in 2023